People with dementia in different stages may have changing problems in different areas, such as communication, social skills, mood, and behaviour. They may also have the same behaviour for different reasons. Caregivers thus have to identify the underlying factors that lead to the problems in order to tackle the real issues. This can be done easily with the person-centred care model illustrated below. Please click on the following boxes to learn more.


Caregivers have tried their best to persuade the person to eat, but the person continues to eat very little. The family members are very worried as the person is losing weight and they can do nothing about it.
Most of us believe that loss of appetite is related to depressed mood. We may as well think that the person with dementia refuses to eat because he or she wants to be fed. However, you can identify many possible reasons with the person-centred care model. For example:
People have different preferences for eating. Some like to eat the same dish every day and some do not; some like to eat with families and some do not. Setting up an environment that is comfortable and matches preferences can increase appetite. Changing the time for meals or having someone else to feed the person may help to reduce suspicion and anxiousness. Caregivers can also introduce the foods and cooking methods or try dishes in front of the person if he or she is feeling insecure.
People have different preferences for eating. Some like to eat the same dish every day and some do not; some like to eat with families and some do not. Setting up an environment that is comfortable and matches preferences can increase appetite. Changing the time for meals or having someone else to feed the person may help to reduce suspicion and anxiousness. Caregivers can also introduce the foods and cooking methods or try dishes in front of the person if he or she is feeling insecure.
Caregivers should look out for the signs of physical illness or pain if the person has no such history. People with dementia may lose the ability to tell their condition as the disease progresses, so the loss of appetite could be the result of stomatitis, uncomfortable dentures, insufficient saliva, physical illness, physical pain, etc. Medical interventions can solve the problem in this case.
People with dementia may lose the ability to recognize some foods as the disease progresses, and they may start to think the seeds in dragon fruit or dark seasonings such as black pepper are bugs. They may also lose the ability to use dining utensils or get confused about what to eat first. If they do not feel hungry, they may stop eating or forget to continue eating instead of seeking help. Caregivers have to provide guidance or support in this case.
While some people may try to seek attention by refusing to eat, some people with dementia may lose appetite because they feel hopeless or helpless and despair of their condition. Some may also think that they are burdens to the family. Caregivers should seek counselling for the person if he or she complains or cries a lot, feels lonely, or is insecure, so that negative thoughts and emotions will no longer decrease his or her appetite.


The person spits despite advice from family members. Caregivers are very frustrated, as scolding cannot stop the person either.
Most of us believe that spitting is a habit the person may have had in the past. Please try to look for other reasons with the person-centred care model. Two possible reasons are included below. Please try to think of another one and replace the “???” in your mind.

